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Trouble - need help

PostPosted:Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:08 am
by Lothar
Ok guys n gals basically the story goes as follows: I've been at neath port talbot college for a few months now and the same crap is going on, i'm in pre vocational preperation which is essentially below mainstream college for people with social issues and otherwise, The class im in is inmature as heck so i went to the block controller and asked for a transfer, After being called " A cherry picker" because i refused to go to the lesson anymore and " Being told to make my own decision" i basically thought " Stuff this, Stick it were the sun don't shine i'm going to career wales.." ( Organisation based upon getting welsh people employment) i went there and have organised an apointment with my careers advisor however... my mother has been having heart issues and it is extremly worrying, i'm very afraid of losing my mother to these heart issues and i'm not sure if i should be stressing her, But should i put my life on my hold to stop her from getting a shock or take things into my own hands? I'm extremly confused and need some help deciding here but personally i'd like to make my own way in life like people including her have been telling me for the last 2 years... What should i do?

PostPosted:Fri Feb 18, 2011 6:33 pm
by saunby
You decisions shouldn't stress your mum out mate, I've had similar desicions to make recently and they are not easy to say the least, my dad is a hard ass and wanted me to go to Uni, which I sorted tried doing and decided against it before I started, my mum has been behind me the whole way and supported whatever I want to do.

My advice would be to make sure you mother knows you are there for her, but also tell her not to worry about you as you will find your own path in life at some point.

Hope this helps :)

PostPosted:Sun Feb 20, 2011 11:21 pm
by Akimoto
Do what your mom would have wanted you to do.